*I warn you in advance: Read till the end before you open your mouth, judge, and close the window.
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I'd just read something the other day. I can pretty much understand that it's about compromise and understanding a loved one, but it's primarily about loyalty.
And blindness.
I sometimes wonder if a person in love is, in fact, a person insane. Look around you, they're all "exhibit A"'s where love is concerned. Perfect example of naivety. Perfect example of disillusionment. Perfect example of superficiality.
Perfect example of a fairytale.
"Listening to things like a boyfriend two-timing, even if he's doing it either indirectly or intentionally, you should be used to it by now. It's nothing new. Actually, you should prepare yourself for things like this, so that, just in case it happens, you won't hurt as much as it probably will."
That's the normal prejudicial opinion, so I shall try to sound as unbiased as possible.
To tell you the truth, guys don't feel the way girls do when it comes to relationships. How often do you hear stories where the guy dumps the girl for two-timing? These cases exist, but try comparing them to the number of cases where the girl dumps the guy for being overly friendly with a girl.
Notice the different terms I used?
You see, guys have different perceptions about relationships and are polar opposites with the perceptions that girls have. To a girl, she was two-timing (I shall assume the girl is smart enough to know she's doing that). But to a guy, he was just being friendly.
Girls, how many times have you heard a guy starting a sentence with, "All we did was..."?
Everything after that is pretty much saying, "All we did was have sex" to a girl. Saying that the person-in-question is your "close friend" doesn't help the situation.
To summarize the whole effing paragraph: Guys need to learn where to draw the line.
To the male gender, yes, maybe going bowling, watching a popular movie, catching dinner and sleeping over is "just being friendly", but have the sense to think about what it might seem like to your girlfriend?
What's more, if you're doing all that with your ex-girlfriend-turned-close-friend?
Or worse, if you're doing all that with everybody?
For everyone with a dick (whose girlfriends' girl friends think they're a bunch of worthless idiots), answer these two questions:
1. What do you do with your "close friend"?
Got everything listed down? Now, answer this:
2. Don't you do the same thing with your girlfriend?
Hence, your "close friend" might just as well be your girlfriend, and vice versa. Exactly what is the difference between these two titles?
Ah, right, it's the fact that only you think there's a difference.
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Girls, please understand that this applies to those who really are jackasses. I know that there are people worthy of your love and all that
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He whom treats everyone around him exactly the same, treats no one differently.
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